Visual Stimulation and Healing
By Alan Medinger Men overcoming homosexuality naturally look to "become like everyone else." In their heterosexuality they expect to experience a visual sexual attraction to women. This doesn't always happen. Will it come later? What does this say of their healing? Putting things in perspective, we can offer a positive message in this area. Years after I had left behind virtually all homosexual attractions and years into a blessed and pleasurable sexual relationship in my marriage one factor continued to disturb me. If an attractive man and an attractive woman walked into a room, my eyes first went to the man. Also, I knew that I had no difficulty not picking up Playboy from a magazine rack, but the GQ by the supermarket check out line still had some draw. At a recent Regeneration all-day meeting for married men who have struggled with homosexuality -- most of whom find sex in their marriage to be a blessing, not a problem -- only 1 in 14 said that he re...